Birds do it, bees do it,
Even educated fleas do it,
Let’s do it, let’s fall in love
Let’s Do It (Cole Porter 1928)
I. Introduction
History is full of
great romances. Romeo and Juliet, who
defied their families for true love.
Rhett and Scarlett’s tumultuous love was set against the backdrop of the
Civil War. And of course, the classic
workplace romance at the Daily Planet between Clark
Kent/ Superman and Lois Lane.
But for Larry,
GeneriCorp’s Human Resources Director, the great romance he’s concerned about
is between Shipping Department Manager Ken Worth and Shipping Clerk Lola
Rider. Ken is Lola’s direct
supervisor. Larry learned about the
couple’s sexual relationship after other female clerks in the Shipping
Department angrily complained about Ken’s plans to promote Lola to the newly
created and higher paying position of Assistant Shipping Manager.
All indications at
this point are that the relationship is consensual. Morale is suffering in the Shipping
Department amid complaints of favoritism and Larry is concerned about whether
the company may have more serious potential legal problems.
II. The Workplace as a
“Dating Pool”
Workplace romances
are nothing new and if anything, have become more common. With the amount of
time people spend working and the increased percentage of women in the
workplace, it’s no surprise that the workplace is fertile ground for couples to
meet. People who work together also usually live within a reasonable dating
distance, and because they share a workplace, they see each other on a daily
basis. Coworkers in similar
jobs may also be approximately the same age, and share similar interests both
inside and outside of work. As such, the
workplace creates an inadvertent dating pool.
In a survey of
U.S. workers by
the staffing and recruiting business Spherion Corporation, 39% of workers said
they have already had a workplace romance and the same percentage would
consider it.
Looking at the workplace
relationships, the survey found 27% involved couples dating for just a few
weeks or less, 30% dating for several months, 15% dating several years and 25%
resulting in marriage of coworkers.
As
the survey indicates, the majority of these relationships are short term and
when the romance sours or goes bad, it can be really bad and cause serious
problems for employers.
The Spherion
Corporation survey noted that nearly half of all employees surveyed (46%) said
they felt that dating a coworker would jeopardize their job security or career
advancement opportunities.
III. Non-Fraternization Policies
In this case, GeneriCorp
does not have a non-fraternization policy, which would otherwise address Ken
and Lola’s workplace romance. In this
regard, GeneriCorp is not unique. A recent survey by the Society for Human
Resource Management showed that 72 % of
the employers who responded said they did not have a written non-fraternization
policy, 14 % said they had a non-written policy that was understood within
their workplace, and only 13 % indicated they had a formal written policy. However, even when there is a policy, many
employers adopt an enforcement attitude of benign neglect.
This is not
surprising. It’s an awkward subject for
some employers and Human Resource professionals, who do not relish the role of
being the “Romance Police.” Many would rather not get involved in employees’
personal lives unless it is causing problems in the workplace. However, such policies are important so
employers can clearly communicate to employees what is and is not appropriate
in the workplace and to protect themselves from legal liability and disruption
of the work environment.
What are some of the
specific reasons for adopting such a policy?
It addresses and hopefully prevents problems arising from:
·
Favoritism/perceptions of favoritism (and the
ensuing rumor mill)
·
Disruption of the workplace (including
extramarital affairs)
·
Conflicts of interest
·
Confidentiality (nondisclosure agreements, trade
secrets, salary information, etc.)
·
Hostile Work Environment
·
Sexual Harassment (including repeated
unsolicited requests for dates)
The purpose of this
article is primarily to address the issues that arise from consensual workplace
romances, and it is not intended to address the broader area of sexual
harassment. However, as noted above, the
problem with certain office romances, especially between supervisors and
subordinates, is that they may not be consensual, and in fact may be
coerced. Contrary to the traditional
Title VII scenario in such cases,
in recent years there has been an increase in the number of EEOC charges filed
by male employees, complaining of sexual harassment from female
supervisors. Any such issues should be addressed fully by the
sexual harassment policy employers should already have in place. A
non-fraternization policy should be utilized in conjunction with the sexual
harassment policy.
A. Supervisor and Subordinate Relationships
In the case of the
romance between GeneriCorp Shipping Manager Ken Worth and Shipping Clerk Lola
Rider, what are the legal issues?
Assuming that it is a voluntary consensual relationship, there would not
appear to be any liability for GeneriCorp under Title VII
for sexual harassment and/or sexual discrimination.
However, what about the claims of favoritism
from the other female clerks in the Shipping Department, who are upset that
Lola is getting a promotion from her boss and new boyfriend? Do these other employees have a Title VII claim against GeneriCorp for favoritism shown
to a co-worker who is sexually involved with a supervisor?
According to the
EEOC, the answer, in regard to “insolated instances” of sexual favoritism, is
“no.” The EEOC Policy Guidance on
Employer Liability under Title VII
was adopted January 12, 1990, and was updated in June 1999. It provides that:
Not all types of sexual
favoritism violate Title
VII.
It is the Commissioners position that Title
VII does not prohibit isolated instances of
preferential treatment based on consensual romantic relationships.
An isolated instance of favoritism toward a
“paramour” (or a spouse or friend) may be unfair, but it does not discriminate
against women or men in violation of Title
VII,
since both are disadvantaged for reasons other than their genders.
A female [plaintiff] who is denied an
employment benefit because of such sexual favoritism would not have been
treated more favorably had she been a man nor, conversely, was she treated less
favorably because she was a woman.
In essence, the EEOC is saying that while other employees in the
workplace, both men or women, may feel the situation is unethical or unfair, it
is not sexual discrimination because both groups are disadvantaged for reasons
other than their gender. However, the
EEOC Policy Guidance also notes that:
Managers who engage in
widespread sexual favoritism may also communicate a message that the way for
women to get ahead in the workplace is by engaging in sexual conduct or that
sexual solicitations are a prerequisite to their fair treatment. This can form the basis of an implicit “quid
pro quo” harassment claim for female employees, as well as a hostile work
environment claim for both women and men who find this offensive.
The EEOC authority
has been cited favorably by federal courts within the Fifth Circuit (which
encompasses
Louisiana,
Mississippi
and
Texas) in
dismissing such claims of sexual favoritism.
The Fifth Circuit itself has also held that an employee does not have a
cause of action for retaliation for reporting a supervisor’s sexual
relationship with a subordinate coworker.
However, there is
some indication that courts may be taking a more nuanced view on sexual
favoritism based on consensual relationships. The key phrase in the EEOC Policy
Guidance is that “Title VII does
not prohibit isolated instances of preferential treatment based on
consensual romantic relationships.”
In a recent case by
the California Supreme Court, it was held that widespread and overt sexual
favoritism resulting from consensual relations could create a cause of action
for sexual harassment and hostile work environment. This ruling may reflect a trend in how courts
view such cases.
In Miller v. Department of Correction, 36
Cal. 4th 446 (Cal. 2005), two
former female employees at a California prison claimed that the warden gave
unwarranted favorable treatment to numerous female employees with whom he was
having sexual affairs, and they claimed it amounted to sexual harassment and
discrimination. The case was dismissed
at the trial stage but the California Supreme Court reinstated the
lawsuit. While it was a state court
claim, the California Supreme Court relied on the federal EEOC Policy Guidance. In finding for the Plaintiffs, the Court
held:
[A]lthough an isolated
instance of favoritism on the part of a supervisor toward a female employee
with whom the supervisor is conducting a consensual sexual affair would not
constitute sexual harassment, when such sexual favoritism in a workplace is
sufficiently widespread it may create an actionable hostile work environment in
which the demeaning message is conveyed to female employees that they are
viewed as “sexual playthings” or that the way required for women to get ahead
in the workplace is to engage in sexual conduct with their supervisors or the
management. (emphasis added).
It is not uncommon
that once a consensual relationship ends, the subordinate employee will
subsequently claim they were coerced by the supervisor and will file a Title VII lawsuit.
Aside from any potential legal liability, the issue of a supervisor
sexually involved with a subordinate can result in acrimony and disruption in
the workplace if the relationship ends badly.
Even assuming the relationship continues happily, the impact in the
workplace can be disgruntled coworkers, poor morale and a never-ending
distraction from the real work of your business.
An employer’s
non-fraternization policy should strictly prohibit romantic relationships
between supervisors and subordinate employees or any employee who falls under
that supervisor’s chain of supervision.
Companies that are large enough sometimes have policies that allow the
supervised employee to transfer, if possible, to a different department, where
they would not be supervised by their love interest.
However, this potentially opens the door to
claims of employees being treated differently on the basis of their gender.
A zero tolerance policy best protects the
employer.
While this type of
policy may seem harsh and draconian, it is important to remember that the
purpose of your business is not to be a dating service or a singles bar. You did not create the situation, the two
employees who started the relationship created the problem. Having been involuntarily placed in the
position of having to deal with it, this is the best option to avoid possible
legal liability and problems in the workplace.
In the instance of a violation of the policy, the following procedure
can be followed:
(1)
Call them in and talk to them separately;
(2)
Tell them that you have reason to believe that they are
involved in a sexual relationship with the other employee;
(3)
Make them aware that the company has serious concerns
because a relationship between a supervisor and a subordinate employee leaves
the company open to claims of sexual harassment, hostile work environment,
retaliation or favoritism;
(4)
Inform both employees that it put the company in
position where it has to do something to avoid legal liability and/or
disruption to the workplace, and the situation
cannot continue;
(5)
Tell both of them they have until noon the next day or
some other deadline to decide between themselves which of them is going to
voluntarily decide to resign, and if they can’t, both of them will be
terminated. This avoids later claims of
sex discrimination, because the employer’s decision is not based on gender and
in the event they cannot decide, both genders are treated equally. Some employers may elect to terminate one of
the employees based on their respective employment history, position and
seniority. However, this opens the door
to claims that employees of different genders were treated differently.
Some employers adopt
non-fraternization policies that discourage but do not strictly forbid
relationships between supervisors and employees who do not fall under their
chain command. Such policies require
that the relationship must be disclosed by the supervisor to his or her
manager or the next person up the supervisory chain. The higher supervisory official then must
assess the situation and make a recommendation to resolve any actual or
potential conflict created by the relationship.
However, such policies may not address all of the potential problems.
Likewise it results in company managers
using company time to “assess” romantic relationships.
B. Coworker Relationships
Fresh on the heels
of addressing the Ken and Lola romance in the Shipping Department, Larry the
Human Resources Manager is faced with another office love affair. This time it’s over in the Data Processing
Department. Larry learns that Data Entry
Clerks Ivy Pod and Pete Dief have been
dating quietly for six months, and generally few people at GeneriCorp know they
are an item. Neither Ivy nor Pete have
any supervisory authority over each other.
It’s estimated that
80% of office romances involve similarly situated co-workers. Romantic
relationships between co-workers with no supervisory authority over the other
still present many of the same potential problems for the employer. While there is less potential for sexual
coercion than in a supervisor - subordinate situation, there is still plenty of
opportunity for disruption of the workplace during the relationship, and even
more so after an unhappy breakup.
Adopting the same zero tolerance policy as to
co-worker romances is an option.
However, Human Resource professionals report such policies are harder to
enforce in a co-worker scenario. Employees resent the intrusion into what they
perceive as their private lives and they are more likely to keep the workplace
relationships underground, putting more effort into “beating the system” as
opposed to complying with a no-dating policy.
Taking into account the realities of the
workplace and the reluctance to be the “Romance Police”, some employers have
adopted policies that allow co-workers to date but require both individuals to
enter into written agreements: (1) voluntarily disclosing their relationship,
(2) acknowledging their understanding of the company’s sexual harassment and
discrimination policy, and (3) acknowledging that if the relationship causes
disturbance in the workplace, they may be subject to discipline, up to and
including termination. Such an agreement
also requires either party to promptly report to management anything relating
to the relationship or a broken-off relationship that might serve as the basis
of a harassment complaint.
Such an agreement is
a way for employers to preemptively avoid problems with office romances. If you need such a policy drafted for your
business or a non-fraternization policy, please feel free to contact me and we
can discuss what type of policy or agreement would work best for your
workplace.
IV. Tips for Dealing with
Workplace Romances
Office romances are
often the focus of intense gossip, so Human Resources professionals and
supervisors need to know to keep their ears open for news about job or career
damaging behavior resulting from such relationships. Supervisors need to know the appropriate
disciplinary measures to take if a romance derails and the resultant employee
behavior disrupts the workplace.
Employees need to be
made aware that the company will not tolerate sexual liaisons or sexual
behavior at work and any such relationships need to be kept entirely separate
from the work environment. The company’s sexual harassment and
non-fraternization policy needs to be posted and all employees should be
trained as to the company’s policy. If
romance becomes sexual harassment, supervisors, working in concert with Human
Resources, needs to know what to do to take immediate action.
V. Conclusion
Paraphrasing the old song at the start of this
paper, if birds and bees and educated fleas fall in love, the odds are
employees at your company are doing the same. Having the appropriate policies and training
in place can help prevent legal woes as
well as workplace headaches and heartaches
Mark Fijman is a labor and employment attorney
with
Phelps Dunbar, LLC,
which has offices in Louisiana, Mississippi, Florida, Texas, Alabama, North
Carolina and London. To view his firm
bio, click here. He can be reached at (601) 360-9716 and by
e-mail at
fijmanm@phelps.com